Re: Need advice PLZ(asap)
Two ideas or thoughts for you.
A V4 will NOT quit running with one cylinder down.It will run rough,but won't stop running.So something else is wrong besides your compression/metal exchange.
If the shop looked at the plugs as they pulled them out,(and they should have),maybe #4 plug was 'silvery' indicating metal loss going on inside that cylinder.Even though compression was close.
I'd learn more before I went for that second opinion.What if they say something entirely else ? Get a third opinion ?
At this point I would stick with #1,have them pull that head,and show you the damage they say you have. Probably another 30 minutes of labor on your bill.
DHP