ten year wedding anniversery, what do I get her

Tyme2fish

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Re: ten year wedding anniversery, what do I get her

I will attempt to kinda get this back on track.
25 years is gold or paper?
50 years is diamonds or geratoll
etc etc
whats ten years?
rob


Anniversary
Traditional Gifts:
Tin or Aluminum
Modern Gifts:Diamond Jewelry


So get her some aluminum cooking pots and buy yourself a new tinny fishing boat.:D
 

npd4432

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And my wife told me after about 5 years that I was buying her a 10 year ring for her tenth.

It is a very nice ring. Just happy I didn't have to pick it out.

My wife picked out her engagement ring, I felt like a million bucks when she liked it............

But on the question, I would not get her anything, she should just be happy to have you and you to have her. That probably wont go over too good in your household but in mine we just don't exchange gifts.
 

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Trust me on this, sometimes the subtle hints they (wives) drop are meaningless. My fiancee was complaining about how the vacuum is no good, well hey, I find one on sale for Christmas, sweet, two birds with one stone! Or so I thought. . .:redface: I mainly just bought it as a gag gift, and after three hours of dead silence and the infamous "evil eye" I broke out the real gift: a gold and diamond bracelet.

Rule of thumb: DO NOT GET ANYTHING THAT CAN BE RELATED TO TYPICAL HOUSEHOLD DUTIES!!:eek: Otherwise there might not be an 11 year anniversary.
 

kenmyfam

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Agree 100% !!!
Kitchen and cleaning stuff is way out of order.
Something personal for her. Does not have to cost a fortune, just something with meaning. She may have hinted recently. Think back !!!
 

bassman284

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Well, don't mess it up. After 10 years, she figures you're pretty well trained and you need to show it by getting the right gift, whatever the heck THAT is. If you don't, the next 10 years will be harsh.
 

jbjennings

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I'm coming up on 10yrs. next summer as well. The wife wants some diamond earrings, which I'll probably get. I hate spending money on something I think has no value whatsoever. Why couldn't she want a shotgun or fishing rod/reel or boat motor? I actually LIKE shopping for those! Looks like I'm going to have to go for the earrings, though. I think HOW you give 'em is as important to the womenfolk as the gift.
Good luck,
JBJ
 

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Trust me on this, sometimes the subtle hints they (wives) drop are meaningless. My fiancee was complaining about how the vacuum is no good, well hey, I find one on sale for Christmas, sweet, two birds with one stone! Or so I thought. . .:redface: I mainly just bought it as a gag gift, and after three hours of dead silence and the infamous "evil eye" I broke out the real gift: a gold and diamond bracelet.

Rule of thumb: DO NOT GET ANYTHING THAT CAN BE RELATED TO TYPICAL HOUSEHOLD DUTIES!!:eek: Otherwise there might not be an 11 year anniversary.


Got my wife a roomba for xmas. She loved it. Except it has started just spinning in circles.
 

dr_bowtie

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I dont give my wife anything for Anniversaries....she didnt use the last gift I gave her...:)
 

bruceb58

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Re: ten year wedding anniversery, what do I get her

A card that says happy 10th!

May be the last card you ever give though!

If you don't know what to give her and you are asking a bunch of slobs on the internet that don't even know you or her...you are in trouble my friend!
 

LadyFish

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This is according to the experts whoever they are...

The tenth year of marriage celebration is the first of the major milestone anniversaries. As you celebrate this special 10th wedding anniversary, think about the durability of your commitment to one another for a full decade.

Here are some 10th wedding anniversary ideas and symbols to help you choose tin, aluminum, or diamond jewelry associated with your 10th marriage anniversary.

10th Anniversary Traditional Gift
Tin or aluminum. The pliability of tin and aluminum is a symbol of how a successful marriage needs to be flexible and durable and how it can be bent without being broken.

10th Anniversary Contemporary/Modern Gift:
Diamond jewelry. A marriage that lasts ten years is as durable and beautiful as a diamond.

10th Anniversary Gemstone:
Diamond jewelry or blue sapphire.

10th Anniversary Color:
Silver or blue.
10th Anniversary Flower
Daffodil. Trumpet-shaped daffodils represent joy, cheerfulness, and happiness.

You know her better than any of us but I will say, I was the recipient of jewlery, a elegant dinner out, flowers and a beautiful card.

The best advice I can give is to give from the heart something that will make her feel appreciated and special, afterall its the thought that counts, and.......

for the love of God, don't forget it. ;)
 

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If your wife is a reader an Amazon Kindle is a great gift. My wife is a big reader and I was so excited when there was actually a gadget that SHE wanted, to offset the many that I want and have. She LOVES the thing.
 

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Thanks for that post, LF ... gave me a great idea for my wife (10th in April). She was admiring a beautiful saphire and diamond necklace that matched the tennis bracelet and earings that I had given her over the last few years ... tried to get it for her when she was admiring it, but she didn't want to spend the money. Hmmm, and it is in a little jewelry store on the island of Kauai, so I guess we will have to go back there to get it .... sounds like a plan!
 

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Thanks to all for your responses, especially time2fish, and lady fish for the traditional 10 year anniversery gifts, that I could not remember:confused:
It has been decided (her idea) that we will have a nice dinner at home and have some of the neighbours over.
as for a gift, roses a card and a bottle of wine from the winery at the end of the road.
keepen it simple but sweet;)
rob
 

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Thanks to all for your responses, especially time2fish, and lady fish for the traditional 10 year anniversery gifts, that I could not remember:confused:
It has been decided (her idea) that we will have a nice dinner at home and have some of the neighbours over.
as for a gift, roses a card and a bottle of wine from the winery at the end of the road.
keepen it simple but sweet;)
rob

I might add, based on experience, that washing the dishes could be the beginning of foreplay.:D
 

Tyme2fish

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Re: ten year wedding anniversery, what do I get her

Thanks to all for your responses, especially time2fish, and lady fish for the traditional 10 year anniversery gifts, that I could not remember:confused:
It has been decided (her idea) that we will have a nice dinner at home and have some of the neighbours over.
as for a gift, roses a card and a bottle of wine from the winery at the end of the road.
keepen it simple but sweet;)
rob


You're welcome. Glad I may have helped a little bit.:)
 

bruceb58

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Re: ten year wedding anniversery, what do I get her

as for a gift, roses a card and a bottle of wine from the winery at the end of the road.
keepen it simple but sweet;)
rob
Good choices.
 

jkust

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First off congratulations for making it 10 years. Every person in our wedding party (but us) 13 years ago has been married and divorced, some multiple times. I don't know if you have kids but an all inclusive spa day is a big hit. A day away from it all. If that is a no go, go with a Dyson.
 

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For the last 5 years our boating club takes a cruise to St. Augustine about the time of our anniversary in Oct. Since this is OUR favorite cruise, we sort of give it to each other. we also go a day earlier. This way She hits the shops on St. Georges St., on Friday and Sat mornings, and we can do the club activities on Sat afternoon. We also hit our two favorite restaurants there (Harry's and O.C. Whites). So, with the restaurants and lunch couters, we do no cooking or dishwashing. This October it will be 40 yrs.

If you have been married for 10 years, why don't you take a cruise in your boat or go on a cruise ship? Just you 2. No kids dogs, or other drag a longs. ( We did the cruise 5 years ago. I liked it, although someone else was Captain..)

What no Scarlet O'Harah's or Florida Cracker?
 
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