The failure happens when the gasket material crimped under the metal donut starts to erode, then combustion pressure pushes past the donut as it is no longer supported. Usually caused by loss of clamping pressure on the head - overheating is a factor. Pictures of the head and block between the cylinders might help.
You can inspect rings two ways:
1) Shine a bright light into the gap between the piston and cylinder wall with the piston at top. Move the piston around to make the gap larger. You're looking for a continuous, shiny metal ring. There will be a gap in one place only.
2) Remove bypass covers and turn the motor over to expose the rings in the ports. You're looking for springback on the rings, and presence of rings too.
If the rings look good, new gaskets and head resurface will be required.
Teardown to replace rings is a step for well after more diagnosis is done.