Re: 85 hp mercury STALLS when i put in gear
Being "stuck" doing the work yourself is actually a good thing, given the hourly rates at marinas! The old joke about a boat being a hole in the water that you pour money into comes from people who have to pay someone else to work on their boats! If you can do it yourself, you're way ahead of the game!
Get a Merc factory manual, and keep getting help from here, oldmercs.com, and John's Old Mercury Q and A page, and you'll do fine.