Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

FBPirate95

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I knew going into this weekend that it was going to be bad. We were having problems at work and I knew I'd have to come in a good portion of the weekend, so I was already in a "thrilled" state of mind by Saturday. Well as it turns out it seemed I was going to have a little time on Sunday to take my boat out for the first time. She's been having some mechanical issues that I wanted to check out. Well my wife and I got into a disagreement about the priorities around the house. Meaning she felt we needed to clean, cut grass, landscape, etc. while I had the time. I of course believed the time should be spent on the boat. I lost needless to say. Well as it turns out we did all that and then my wife set up a play date with our kids and our friends kids at the beach.

So at 6pm we show up at the beach (the one beach I usually try to avoid due to crowding) and begin chilling out around the water. The tide had changed and now was starting to come in. I saw some signs in the water showing a rip tide might be possible. I had my kids move away from that area, and we started to throw a football around in the water. As I scanned the people in the water I saw 4 kids that at first glance seemed to be playing about 15 yards away from me. For some reason I glanced back and realized they weren't playing, they were having a hard time staying on the surface. The waves were coming in pretty constant and heavy sets, and the depth had risen pretty quickly. I see a woman trying to get to them and she was yelling for help. The current was strong enough that she was having a hard time getting to them. 1 of the three, a little girl had drifted further away from the others. She was now about 15 yards past them, and I knew the lady couldn't reach her. I looked back at the girl, and she was now going under the surface, and barely catching her breath when she came up. I started out towards her at first, but the tide forced me to have to swim. I got to her in about 20 seconds. About the time I got to her she went completely under and I grabbed her and picked her up out of the water. I started swimming back to shore, carring her up so she could get her breath. I could here her lungs rattling with water in them. We got to the beach, and her and her brothers were able to sit there and cough up whatever water they had in them. I felt good about helping her out. The sad thing is everyone else on the beach just stood there and watched.

Moral of the story is: Things happen for a reason. You may not get to do what you want (go boating) or go where you want, but sometimes you wind up somewhere because you're supposed to be there. That's why I feel I was there. If things aren't going your way, try to look for the good in the situation.
 

Blue Crabber

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

Way to go! Good job jumping in and lending a hand where needed. Sadly, in this day and age to many people are afraid to get involved. Glad to hear that you weren't!
 

spktho

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

^^^I agree and want to add that you need to be a darn good swimmer. There have been many good samaritans drown along with the people they were trying to help because they were not strong enough swimmers. Rip currents can be very scary, luckily most of them are fairly small and you can get out of them by swimming sideways and then in to shore.
 

FBPirate95

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

^^^I agree and want to add that you need to be a darn good swimmer. There have been many good samaritans drown along with the people they were trying to help because they were not strong enough swimmers. Rip currents can be very scary, luckily most of them are fairly small and you can get out of them by swimming sideways and then in to shore.

I guess that's why I wasn't afraid to help out. I grew up on the beaches here and understand what's going on with the water. Not to mention my parents made me take swimming lessons every summer all the way up to lifeguard training.

To me, I don't think anything special about it. I wasn't excited or addreneline pumped or anything. It just what was needed at the right time. If my kids were going through the same thing I would hope someone was there that could help. My point of adding the story today was that for me it was a big slap in the face to quit getting upset when I don't get my way. I should realize things ALWAYS happen for a reason, you just have to figure out what that reason is. The end result of it all was I didn't feel like a hero or anything, I felt like a jerk for showing my rear earlier in the day.
 

zach103

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

Good job man.. Proud of you.. i really am
 

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

Excellent! Thanks for being the hero ... but remember, it is no use being a hero if you cannot handle the job that needs to be done. Too many people make more work for the rescue or recovery teams because they do stupid things that are over their heads ability wise. Know what you can do in an emergency, and don't go beyond that ... one lost is better than two.

In emergency services it is drilled into us, our first priority is ourself, then our team mates, then the bystanders, and lastly the victim.
 

tashasdaddy

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

you are a good man. thanks.
 

slia67

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

I guess that's why I wasn't afraid to help out. I grew up on the beaches here and understand what's going on with the water. Not to mention my parents made me take swimming lessons every summer all the way up to lifeguard training.

It appears that he is well qualified to make the determination to attempt a save or not. (although I also understand how well meaning bystanders can create another rescue attempt for emergency response teams) I for one am glad you did. I just hope that if one of my kids are in trouble and I'm not there to help someone like you will be willing to help.


Thank you for being willing to get involved!
 

dave11

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

Good work. It must be really special to save a life.
 

Nandy

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

great job!!!
 

kenmyfam

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

Well done. Be proud of yourself. The world needs more people with the same outlook.
 

MikDee

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

Walk Proud Man! You were smart enough to know what a riptide is, and that those kids were in trouble, then boldly took action, and did what you had to do at your own risk! When no one else wanted to get involved, or realized the consequences! No doubt about it you saved a life! I am so glad for you, and that girl that you had your wits about you, and the ability to do this, with everyone getting out safely. Truly, you were where you needed to be at the time, May God Bless You!


P.S. Myself, and a few friends were suddenly caught in a riptide in the Ocean, off Ocean Beach, Fire Island many yrs ago when we were teenagers, one of the girls on the beach noticed it, and warned us to get out, so we all swam sideways to it, and got out okay, but it was quite a scare, and a workout!
 

jbjennings

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Re: Bad weekend turned good with one 30 yard swim...

Pirate,
I think you are very wise to pick up on the fact that He had you in the right place at the right time. Sometimes when I'm feeling really grouchy because I'm having to do some ratty chore that someone needs me for "out of the blue" that puts me out (especially during duck season), I try to remember that He has plans, too, and that His plans are always more important. Glad you were on the job!:)
JBJ
 
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