Re: Breaker switches
Disconnect from the shore power and see what works (lights, fridge, etc). The flip the converter switch and recheck things to see what's on the circuit. It won't be many.
How many batteries do you have, not counting the one for the generator (if equipped)? If you have 2 or 4 stationed together, your house batteries are more than likely also your starting batteries and you may not have a dedicated cranking battery. That is why the manual advises to either run the engines (to charge), run the gennie (to charge), or connect the shore power (to charge)...see a pattern?
If your fridge is on the converter circuit (it may not be if it's a 110v/12v), you can gain a lot of extra battery life by turning off the breaker to it when the engines/genset are off. The fridge eats a lot of battery power if it's going thru the inverter.