Can't stand your buddies wife?

[ezbtr]

Even after you've bent over backwards to be kind, I know all the kids - have worked for me lawns etc, but then my daughter asked me about her when my grandson was here, how rude she was, she's super religious, wayyyy overweight but she's my friends wife.....don't see him much, they have 5 kids but we text all the time, uncomfortable....

 

[aspeck]

What does her being “way overweight” have to do with anything about your friend? And you text him, but you don’t see him or spend time at his house, so what does it matter what she is like? She isn’t your friend or your wife…

 

[DeepCMark58A]

What does her being “way overweight” have to do with anything about your friend? And you text him, but you don’t see him or spend time at his house, so what does it matter what she is like? She isn’t your friend or your wife…

Because it is part of her profile, I have seen this type of woman before. Does she have the facial piercings yet? Or the bright colored hair?

 

[flashback]

This sounds like a dear abbie thread.

 

[aspeck]

Because it is part of her profile, I have seen this type of woman before. Does she have the facial piercings yet? Or the bright colored hair?

The point is, what does it matter? She isn't Heinz's friend, her husband is. I have several friends who have spouses who are not my favorite people in the world. Doesn't matter and doesn't really effect our friendship any. I have a few friends who's spouses don't care for me. Again, it really doesn't matter. Heinz isn't her friend and she isn't Heinz's friend. Okay. Don't see her, don't speak to her, don't visit her. That has little bearing on the relationship with Heinz and her husband's friendship.

 

[bajaman123]

Your basic huffarilla type (obnoxious, overweight, loud, etc) is that way because she hates herself and is danged sure going to make sure she makes everyone else as miserable as she is. The only thing to do is to avoid at all costs...shun her completely. If it costs you your friendship, so be it. I learned a LONG time ago it is FAR better to have the other person be miserable instead of yourself.

 

[Mc Tool]

Its immeasurably worse when she marries your brother .....not really a bad person but #ucking stupid .....and with the worst timing ever. My mother shields her from me but she's 90 something and aint gunna be here much longer.
Oh Ive had a few goes over the years but now ( she dont argue with me any more ) she just turns on the waterworks and runs away , its like you can see the whole room ( cept my brother and Mum ) counting down untill she departs .