Well to finish this thread of, I think I have a working 10 pole Faria tachometer on my boat now!
I will confirm once my cheap ebay tachometer from China shows up, it's the kind you wrap around one of the spark plugs and should be fairly accurate I think. But it's not a gauge you would consider building a new dashboard around, I wouldn't!
Last time I went out I had it switched to the 12 pole setting thinking I could do a rough estimate up to around 4100 rpm on the go, but something was way of and there might still be a gremlin in the system after all! Pulling out the harbor the tachometer almost maxed out and I thought it best to take it off.
I then figured my rectifier was dead and ordered a new one, I didn't even bother to measure it. Well now I have and it seems OK. For now that's unsolved.
At the same time I had ordered a frequency divider from Germany and it showed up today, it's a 2 to 1 divider making the tach see only 10 pulses per revolution.
I just finished mounting it, Running ear muffs it actually seems to work! Despite the gremlin still showing sometimes I saw what i believe was a fair reading for the first time, tach set at 10 pole.
With the gear disconnected it reved up to 2000-3000 rpm, before it would have spun the needle in the tach

There was moments when it would fall of slightly or behave a little erratic, but that could be a bad connection at one end of the wiring harness.
I have to say it took some hard work to piece all the information together and I hope this is it and that others can benefit from this information as well.
Information on the frequency divider: This module splits a frequency scale by a certain factor. The divider is available with split factors 2-10
When ordering please specify the desired division factor.
techn. dates:
Power Voltage: 9 - 15 volt or max 30 volt f?r trucks
Division at the output signal: selectable
Output Voltage: Square wave signal at the level of the input voltage
I hope this works and will let you know once I hit the water........