Coping with Diabetes

BLU LUNCH

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I was found out that I am a Type 2 diabetic after going to the hospital after a fall from my boat and I was out of it the next day they ran all kinds of test and then they checked my sugar and it was 761 and I was given pills to help control my sugar. My problem is I had to competlly change my life style and eating habits and the types of foods I ate. It's real tough and it's hard to go out to resturaunts I was embrassed to ask for menu changes and asking the waitress to make the changes because I'm a diabetic. I relize I have to do it for the rest of my life and if I don't eventally it will cause some serious problems. I'm wondering if you have this problem how did you cope with the major changes.I have my sugar under control now averging around 107......much better.......Ted
 

JB

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Re: Coping with Diabetes

Managing diabetes isn't a lot different than managing heart disease or mental disorders.<br /><br />The easy part is taking your medication. The hardest part is diligent monitoring and learning to make and ask for special menu adjustments in restaurants. Once you learn that there is nothing to be embarrassed about, and that people are willing and quick to make the adjustments you ask for, it gets a lot easier.<br /><br />My former wife is diabetic and has adjusted her life to the point that it all comes easily and normally. The change is tough, but once you get through that it becomes so routine that you hardly notice the difference.<br /><br />Good luck, Ted. Hang in there. :)
 

BassCat73

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Re: Coping with Diabetes

Hey Ted, I have Type 1 diabetes. I've had it for 20 yrs now. It was very hard in the beginning. I still remember vividly, the day I was diagnosed with the condition. Physically, I felt just fine at the Dr's office, but the doctor explained to my mom and me that I had diabetes. I was 10 and I knew that the situation was pretty serious, but I didn't really know what it meant. It really struck me about 2 hrs later. My mom took me to a resturaunt for lunch before we went to the hospital. I could tell my mom felt sorry for me, so I thought this would be a good opportunity to take advantage of the situation! I asked my mom if I could order a chocolate milkshake as a special treat, thinking that it might be easier to get a yes out of her. Well, she said, "no". Then, she explained that I wasn't going to be able to have the same food that I used to be able to have. That's when it really hit me that my life was going to be very different. It was very hard at first.<br /><br />The first thing is to work on accepting the fact that you need to do things differently. It's really not that big of deal and you can lead a very healthy life when you are taking care of yourself properly. As long as my blood sugar is in control, I am as normal as the next guy and I know that I'm just as healthy too.<br /><br />Trying to make the diet changes is hard. I take 4 shots a day and that is most certainly the easy part. Since you are newly diagnosed, I might suggest joining a local group or even an on-line forum. You'll be able to get suggestions, vent frustrations and generally have moral support while living with diabetes. This way, you are not alone in dealing with situations and that can make a world of difference. <br /><br />There will always be struggles and temptations. However, the way I look at it is everyone has temptations and struggles even if they don't have diabetes. Set goals for yourself to acheive. Small at first, then bigger. To change your eating habits all at once is very hard, so don't get discouraged if your blood sugars get out of whack. My doctor explained to me once that it's not realistic to have your blood sugar be in the correct level 100% of the time. She is very happy if her patients have correct levels at least 70% of the time. When she told me that, it relieved immense amounts of pressure I put on myself.<br /><br />Anyhow, just think about this. A diabetic diet is a healthy diet and it's the way most people should eat, so even if you didn't have diabetes, you'd still be doing your body a favor. :) <br /><br />Well wishes!
 

LadyFish

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Re: Coping with Diabetes

PLEASE and I can't stress this enough....take care of your eyes. Diabetes is a prerequisite for all sorts of eye diseases.<br /><br />Get a dialated eye exam once a year from an opthalmologist.
 

QC

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Re: Coping with Diabetes

Blu,<br /><br />My brother was diagnosed when he was 40. Sounds a lot like you, hospital visit because he felt funny, had been living off 7up for about two days . . . He bums about his diet too, but frankly he goes out to eat with us etc. and it doesn't seem to be an issue. Many bigger restaurant chains have added low-carb stuff to their menus due to the Atkins and other diet crazes. My understadning is that these items are pretty close to what a diabetic needs. How long since your diagnoses? I don't think I can tell from your post. Are you really finding it that hard to get something you can choke down? It must be a bummer to have to change life long habits and prefences, but I think like my cousin BassCat that these are good diet choices anyway. Good Luck!! It'll work out.
 

ratracer

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Re: Coping with Diabetes

I already knew what to expect even before I crossed over the threshold because my father was already a diabetic and it runs in our family, even with those that are at normal and below-normal weights. <br /><br />Virtually all of the lifestyle changes you will need to make are those that a sensible person should be making anyways, it's just that in our case it becomes even more imperative. After a while you'll realize like I did that although you need to make compromises, your life can still continue to be rich and fulfilling. <br /><br />Don't be afraid to ask for accomodations in the menu when you go to a restaurant. Remember that their primary goal is for you to go out the door happy, and I've never been refused what I considered to be a reasonable request. <br /><br />The most important thing to remember about diabetes is that it is the 1 chronic disease in which you can have a direct effect on its outcome. The better you take care of yourself, the better the outcome. <br /><br />107 for a fasting sugar level in the morning is pretty good. Did you have a HgA1c test before starting the medication? (I assume you're taking Glucophage/Metformin and/or Micronase/glyburide). This is a test that should be repeated every 3-6 months, because it is the definitive measurement of how well your blood sugar levels are under control.<br /><br />Also keep in mind that you ARE allowed to cheat every once in a while. <br /><br />Ladyfish is right in that you should get a complete eye exam yearly from an opthamologist which includes having your pupils dialated with medication in order to have your retinas examined. We're prone to having problems with uncontrolled growth of blood vessels in our retinas, and if they catch this problem early it can be fixed before there is serious damage.<br /><br />If you are not taking Zestril or Prinivil, expect to be doing so at some point. This drug is effective at controlling high blood pressure, but they have a huge benefit for diabetics because they help prevent blood-sugar-level related damage to our kidneys. <br /><br />The hardest adjustment I had is that beer has now become a rare treat...and I still dislike drinking diet soda. I had already cut out a lot of red meat and switched to a lower-fat diet to get my chloresterol levels down long before becoming a diabetic, so that wasn't much of an issue for me. Expect to be treated aggressively with Lipitor or similar medications if you can't get your chloresterol levels low enough (LDL of under 100 mg/dL).<br /><br />Quietcat: a low carb diet for us is important because the body converts carbohydrate (including cane sugar and corn syrup) into sugar. Those of us with type-2 diabetes make normal levels of insulin (or at least we start out that way, as we age the amount of insulin we make will tend to drop off) but we have lost the ability to use it efficiently. As a result we have to manually regulate our carbohydrate intake. We may also take medication that partially restores our ability to use the insulin efficiently again, and/or medication that stimulates our natural ability to use insulin. (This vs. a type-1 diabetic, who has lost through no fault of their own the ability to make their own insulin)<br /><br />It's at the point now where I find the disease to be more a nuisance than a real impediment - I can do virtually everything that I want, as long as I take care in doing it, and the compromises I've had to make have become second nature and are hardly even noticed any more. <br /><br />Best of luck to you.
 

ZooMbr

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Re: Coping with Diabetes

Blu - you can to it! Been type 2 for over 2 yrs. Up until 2 months ago I was on one of the newer meds -- although my 3-6 blood test said I was doing ok, but I couldn't tell much different (low energy level, feet cold and eyes bothering me sometimes).<br /><br />Asked for a med change 2 months ago; put on one of the older meds and what a difference! Energy up, feet slowly warming up and eyes bothering me less.<br /><br />Haven't changed diet much and when eating out I still have my favorite meals. With the new med I have to watch as I have dropped into the low range (normal 4-7 up here, I been as low as 3.2 and I'm on the min of this med vs 3x the min on the other one).<br /><br />Just follow the dietitians advise until you get it under control and understand when you can very a bit with out going outside the range.<br /><br />I can handle unrefined carbo's pretty good - I stay away from sugar. Banana on my cereals to sweeten it, that sort of thing.<br /><br />When you get it under control and watch the little things you will find it's not such a big change for the benefits you get. <br /><br />Good luck! If you don't see benefits get back to the Doc and make corrections in meds or diet.
 

BLU LUNCH

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Re: Coping with Diabetes

Thanks everybody I ready needed to read some of this. To answer some of the questions asked I'm on glucophage 2 times a day and my doctor did do a Hg1Ac and she said my sugar was out of control for some time. I had a complete eye exam with dialation and what I thought was way to many tests 3 weeks before I found out I was a diabetic, I had my eye doctor since 1985 I see him every year. I wear glasses for only fine upclose work but I have to wear prescription saftey glasses in the shop I work at, we go to the shop eye doctors for free. I dont cheat eating anything I am not suppose to. The dietian gave me a guide with how much and what I could eat but she told me to try some of the foods that are no-no's , I tried a 1/4 cup of pasta and my sugar shot up over double what it was suppose to be but multi-grain pasta does not bother me. I have no problems with my feet I have to opposite problem my feet sweat real bad. Basscat73,Ratracer and Hang'In thanks well written I printed them and got them on my work bench so next time I feel like crap from worrying about being a diabetic and a few kind words go a long ways..........Ted
 
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