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[aspeck]

The end of last week was a real bummer. Wife and I were ready to anounce to the world that there was a little "aspeck" on the way. Had to leave the chat room suddenly, wife was having some problems. Later that night we lost the little one.<br /><br />God knows what he is doing, and we took comfort in knowing that, but Saturday we just scrapped all plans, got the boat out of storage, and went to the lake. Elizabeth "caught" her first fish.

<br /><br />What a relaxing day and we came home feeling much better - something about solitude on the water! Boating and communing with God and family, what a way to overcome any obstacle!

 

[JGREGORY]

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Aspeck, You have my most profound condolences. I went through exactly the same thing when the Admiral was pregnate the first time and it was the the most heartwreching, hopeless time of my life. And while some people understand what the mother is going through the father generally gets overlooked. When it can be just as hard emotionally.<br /><br />My prayers and best wishes for you and yours.

 

[ehenry]

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aspeck, I'm thinking about you and your wife. My wife and I have been through what yall are going through. Just be there for wife and let her work her way through it.

 

[mellowyellow]

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life goes on my friend... fishing makes it a bit<br />more bearable is all.<br />kind regards,<br />M.Y.

 

[Carphunter]

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Sorry to hear about your loss Aspeck. <br /><br />My bother-in-laws wife had numerous miscarriages before they had their first child. By looking at their little boy now, I would say it was all worth it.<br /><br />Hang in there buddy. I'm convinced there is a reason for everything. <br /><br />You and your famliy will be added to the Carpies prayers.

 

[jim phillips]

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Sorry for your loss<br />From me and mine to you and yours<br /> Jim

 

[LadyFish]

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So sorry to hear this aspeck. I'm glad you got a little needed therapy.<br /><br />Connie

 

[gonfishn]

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So sorry to hear of your loss Aspect..God must have had a purpose to take one so young...ya got alot of folks here that care in case you need some support...

 

[ratltrap]

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Sorry for your loss aspeck.Keep the faith.

 

[cotterman]

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sorry to hear such bad news.<br /><br />take comfort in your faith and each other

 

[bubbakat]

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sorry for you and your wife's loss my wife and I know how you two feel because we lost one to.<br />We got to keep him for three months though and I was bitter for a long time about it. I am glad you could see so quickly that GOD has a plan for the greater scheme of things to come. Here is to the little one sitting on the right hand of GOD now.

 

[neumanns]

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Words seam inadiquate, You and the misses are in our thoughts. As for the young one, Pure as the driven snow-and in good hands.

 

[aspeck]

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Thanks all, your thoughts and prayers are appreciated. We do understand that God's ways are much higher than ours and we can live with that.<br /><br />As "She who must be obeyed" says, we just have to "practice" more ! Glad she has a good sense of humor and a strong trust in God also!

 

[miloman]

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aspeck I am sorry may you find solice in god and understand that the child is in a better place remember the child in your heart sorry

 

[Scoop]

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Aspeck, I am so sorry to hear that. I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain. You and your wife are in my thoughts.

 

[Ralph 123]

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Aspeck, I truly admire the way in which you and your wife are coping. You are obviously two very strong and deep people. I wish nothing but the best for you both.

 

[GodsBeast]

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Aspeck, May the Lord, embrace and comfort you and your wife with your loss, as he cares and prepares<br />a place for little Aspeck! You and your wife, are in My wife and my prayers.<br /><br />Just one of GodsBeast's