Re: how long do I wait for gasket to seal/cure?
If the head gasket had a shinny appearance to it, more than likely it had sealer already applied to it whereas heat would cause it to seat/seal properly.
If the gasket was just a plain gasket, nothing should be applied to it other than plain oil. It's not proper to coat the head gasket with anything else, however it's very unlikely that whatever you applied will do any harm.
As long as the head bolts were torqued properly in the specified sequence, there is no waiting period.
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