Re: lower unit removal
OK, talking about a 7.5 Merc, right? Well, the Good News is you got the powerhead off, which of course means the driveshaft is not rusted stuck into the crankshaft.
Providing you've loosened/removed the nut at the front of the lower unit up high, and the nut underneath the anti-ventilation plate, about the only thing that typically would prevent the unit from dropping down is salt deposits around the forward-located stud.
Try applying some heat along the area in the "leg" (exhaust tower, center section) where the stud is passing thru. This'll expand the aluminum and hopefully release the stud. A bit of penetrant (such as PB Blaster) after heating will help. It'll also help to carefully pry between the stud and the leg. Use caution not to damage the stud's threads when you're prying on it.
Last resort, you need to 'wedge' the lower unit off. Don't use screwdrivers as the thin blades will break the fragile aluminum!
Use some plastic wood-splitting wedges, or if you can get your hands on some metal, wide-and-thin machinist's wedges, those are the best of all.
Put one in front and one on each side in the rear and carefully tap all of them equally inwards.
I expect you'll find the long stud in front is keeping it from coming down so concentrate your effort on that area.
HTH.........ed