The cap looks OK, as far as I can see. I would not remove too much metal. The spark is real hot and should pass thru light oxidation. The rotor picture did not come up. Clean the rotor carefully, as they are real fragile and $200+ and a PIA to replace.
Check your spark plug wires for an arc to ground. Also, your spark plug wires are stranded stainless steel. They should have zero resistance. Which cylinder is missing?