Sick and Fed Up with trying for kids

[jimchere]

Thanks Flathead and everyone for the vent. Rest deleted.

 

[FLATHEAD]

Re: Sick and Fed Up with trying for kids

YO Jim take it easy. Sorry to hear of your troubles with trying to have kids. My sister went through it too, very gut wrenching to say the least. After years of trying they were about to give up and then they finally decided to adopt a child. That was the single best thing that ever happened for my sister. They went through a lot just trying to adopt but it finally happened for them. Now I have a beautiful little niece to spoil. That was 11 years ago. They have never looked back. <br /><br />I wish you good luck.

 

[aspeck]

Re: Sick and Fed Up with trying for kids

I agree with Flahthead, it can be very trying. And sometimes ranting can be a good vent, so rant away, we are there for ya! (Will also say a prayer for ya).<br /><br />Several friends ended up going the adoption route - amazing things happened when they did - they absolutely fell in love with THEIR new charges, and 2 of them suddenly found themselves pregnant.<br /><br />Hang in there, dude, we are pulLing for ya!

 

[ebbtide176]

Re: Sick and Fed Up with trying for kids

yeah, its ok to vent about it. we have a friend that went yrs trying and going thru the heartbreak of not making it full term - 8x<br />their only child is now a teacher, graduated college a couple of yrs ago. his mother still calls him "precious" when she speaks to him <br /><br />i offered a prayer for you too

 

[Ralph 123]

Re: Sick and Fed Up with trying for kids

The minute you stop trying it usually happens...<br /><br />Anyway, since you deleted your post I don't know the story, so here is mine. We tried and tried. Got tested and no issues w/me. They then discovered wifes tubes were blocked. A little procedure to remove the blockage and within a few months Jr was on the way. If you have not done so, go to a good reproductive medical center...

 

[Jwill]

Re: Sick and Fed Up with trying for kids

I have a friend that is adopted. I feel sorry for his parents. Has to be the biggest mistake they ever made. He's 40 years old and is still bleeding them dry.<br />Of course alot of times this will happen whether there adopted or your own.<br />Chances are the child will turn out fine but you never know.<br />Just have fun trying........