I'm back. I never made any changes and just rolled with it. But this is the year I fix it! Did a little more investigating. My boat mechanic says battery is fine. I check wires and they appear good.
There are two wires to the radio, one red one black. They lead around front of boat back to dash. The red goes directly to the ignition switch and black to one large bar that all ground is connected too. So radio works with key out, but the second I crank, it all shuts down.
Can I simply take that red wire and connect to the separate fused ACC switch? That switch currently is just a car type cigarette outlet to charge the cell phone. I've checked with an inflatable tube air pump and when that ACC switch is on, there is continuous power(pump keeps blowing) even when cranking. I would then just turn that on when i go out, and off when im done for the day. I'm totally ok with resetting everything once a day, but not 10 times because I have to unload and load kids on the tube!