Re: Transom help
I agree with the comments about lack of friction when a transom plate is used. If the plate doesn't have something to stop upward motion, you very definately can lose your motor. And, while I understand the logic behind the advice to use a safety chain, and don't disagree with it, that really shouldn't be the first line of defense against movement of the motor.
Fortunately, you can still use the plate. As others have said, you just have to have something to fix the problem - a hollowed out portion on the plate for the clamps to sink into, a piece of small square bar welded across the area just above where the clamp cups will be, etc. Or, you can go to one of the aftermarket suppliers and buy a ready-made aluminum transom plate with detends for the clamps molded in.
In regard to one persons worry about galvanic action between dissimilar metals ... how about a thin coating of silicon between the pieces? Admittedly, it would probably be a pain to separate the two later on but if you don't use to much, it's probably ok.