'80-something Force 85...been swapping parts around from several motors for years, not really sure what year the trim/tilt system is from. It's the style with the smaller pancake style trim cylinder, one longer hydraulic cylinder for tilt on the right, one passive shock absorber on the left, and pump/motor bolted to the side of the transom bracket.

Opened up the shock to replace the o-rings and wiper, poured out about half the volume of some black oil...Rebuild kit says to refill with ATF, hydraulic oil, or 30wt motor oil, "depending on damping required".
Is there a generally recommended, "for most situations" kind of thing, oil recommended here? Or is this going to be a trial and error thing?
I have plenty of different oils to choose from here, from tuning my rock crawler coilovers, I just have no idea what level of damping an outboard needs.

Opened up the shock to replace the o-rings and wiper, poured out about half the volume of some black oil...Rebuild kit says to refill with ATF, hydraulic oil, or 30wt motor oil, "depending on damping required".
Is there a generally recommended, "for most situations" kind of thing, oil recommended here? Or is this going to be a trial and error thing?
I have plenty of different oils to choose from here, from tuning my rock crawler coilovers, I just have no idea what level of damping an outboard needs.