I appreciate your understanding and saying that there are no stupid questions. I LOVE learning new things and the only hindrance I've had is people who took one look at a 5'3" female and said "nah, I'm not wasting my time with her". In addition to working on this outboard issue, I just rebuilt the hydraulics on my mini skid steer and will be replacing all four idler wheels today after replacing the bearings and seals. So with a knowledgeable and patient teacher, I can learn anything.
Without the proper means of securing the boat to the dock or trailer and not having a test tank any better than a 55 gallon trash can, I went ahead and did the lake test today. BUT I didn't hang over the seat. I removed the spare gas tank and sat back by the motor and strapped myself to the boat railing for good measure. Here's what I got with the fuel testing at load: upon start up, the gauge locked in at around 42/43ish and did great at low to mid speeds. When he pushed it up to high and then full throttle, it held the pressure for about thirty seconds and then the needle would quiver and drop suddenly to 30 (at that time though, there was no noticeable bogging-down sensation or sound of the motor slowing, the pressure dropped BEFORE we felt the reaction to that happening. It then dropped to 20 and then 10 and my husband had to back down the throttle to keep it from dying. When he backed off, it would recover (I didn't not pump the primer bulb since I already had too much going on holding the gauge but I didn't need to because him throttling down kept it from dying). We did that two more times to see if it would repeat and it did each time. Absolutely smooth as silk at low speeds and up to about half throttle. Then at 3/4 to full throttle, the pressure would drop from 42 to 30 and on down.
The marine tech had told me to call him from the boat when I was testing it and tell him what it did so I called. His thoughts are that it seems like the VST tank is filling up but when pushed to give more fuel, it's not STAYING full and keeping up with demand. The issue, to him, is definitely a fuel one and not the computer or harness at this point. He said it's possible it could be the low pressure pump but he's not leaning towards that because it is fill the tank regularly at lower speeds. He is leaning towards it being a float and needle issue that is preventing the tank from filling and staying filled when there is a higher demand for fuel. It could also be something going on with the new high pressure pump but he's pretty convinced the issue is inside that VST. It was getting ready to storm so we headed back to the dock. I will go back another day and pull the VST off and take just it to his shop, as per his request. He wants to look inside it and check everything himself.
So that's where I'm at today; what is your opinion of what my testing showed and what the tech thinks it's pointing to?