OK, finally made it back down to get some work done, and got stymied again. A bit of progress:
1. Steering cable replaced. Yup, that was for sure an issue. Actuator I can't tell if it was actually leaking or not. Looked more like grease around there. Fingers crossed.
2. Still can't get the damn flywheel off. Using balancer pullers, and the flywheel bolts are *just* too big to get through the slots on the puller. Tired of trying to find the proper size flywheel bolt (rounded 2 of them off), sucked it up and spent $6.50 each at the GM stealership.
3. Soda blasted, degreased, painted the engine. Looks pretty now.
4. Cleaned out the bilge last time down. So disgusting. There was still enough oily river debris that I was using a garden trowel to scoop it out.
5. Cleaned up electrical connections.
6. Got the remnants of the old mount out of the flywheel cover. Pressed in the new one...and it doesn't fit the same as the other side. It's about 2mm lower on the (new one) starboard side than the port side. Hard to screw up I think, since the outer sleeve bottoms out on a lip in the housing. Verified visually that both are tight against the lip. The bottom should be fine because of the fiber washer. Having a hard time figuring out if the top will be affected. I did manage to salvage the mounting bolt by dremel'ing off the inner sleeve.
You can see the inner sleeve recessed on the right, and just a bit proud of the housing on the left.

Dremel vs. inner sleeve of motor mount.
Left to do:
1. Figure out bilge pump mounting.
2. Remove flywheel, change RMS.
3. Clean off manifolds/elbows. Decide whether to install the O2 spacer. I wonder if the issue was Iron-->alu-->iron and having some conductive bolts?
4. Reinstall motor.
5. Fix hole in keel.
6. Go boating?