Re: A Day at the Lake, Do you Foot the Bill?
I typically will ask people to provide their own drinks (no red wine and preferably in aluminum or plastic containers) since I don't necessarily know what they want to drink and don't want to be stuck with a bunch of stuff I won't drink. I will also ask them to bring along any snacks or food unless we are going somewhere where I plan on grilling or to a waterfront restaurant. I keep 10 PFDs on my boat, but they are all adult sized, so if children are coming they will need to provide a PFD for their kids. I also keep a couple extra towels and sunscreen on board in case someone forgets, I would rather have my friends use what I have than be wet and sunburned because they forgot one of these items.
When it comes to true operating costs, most of my friends offer to kick in gas money, but I have never asked for it. I'm going to go out and burn the gas anyway so this isn't a big deal, but it is always nice when they offer (and pretty much guarantees another trip out on the water for them.)
Most of my friends will show up to my boat in the morning with a 12 pack of my favorite beer iced up and ready for me, which is always a nice gesture and pretty much guarantees another trip out.
My favorite passengers though are the ones that race me to the gas pump and swipe their own credit card before I get a chance to swipe mine. They ALWAYS will get another invite. I'll admit, I learned this trick before I owned a boat, and the first person I did this to was shocked when I didn't even flinch about a $200 gas bill for a weekend. I told them I couldn't rent a boat for $200 for the weekend so I had absolutely no problem filling up their boat at the end of the weekend (even though I was only accounting for 1/4 of the total guests on their boat that weekend.)