Still looking for the smoking gun....
I rigged this up to test the old fuel pick up tube and anti-siphon valve for vacuum leaks, it's holding at -11.5"hg, I left it hooked up in the garage and will go out later to see if it holds or not. A section of the old fuel line is on the end with the anti-siphon valve, to see if it was porous or not....
I'm not sure what vacuum a fuel pump typically pulls, gotta find that out, but if this holds, it leaves only the fuel. The boat ran perfect on the outboard tank, so I thought for sure there'd be a problem with the anti-siphon valve, pick up tube, or fuel line, but so far.....
PS I tested the old anti siphon valve against an identical new one (OEM BRP anti siphon valve) and with the vacuum pump they test identical both open at -1"hg.
Got my answer about fuel pump vacuum from my OMC shop manual, should be -9"-10"hg. So if this holds at -11.5", it was not the cause of the problem.....