Girl issues, part 2

[QC]

Re: Girl issues, part 2

What Jason said . . .<br /><br />Yeah rodbolt, I was watching . . . thanks for the mention.<br /><br />Ryan, here's what I think:<br /><br />You can't atract women like that by being nice. They WANT scumbags. Think about all of the girls who want drug addicted Rock Stars, even seemingly nice girls. Some really hot ones too (girls not the Rock Stars . . .).<br /><br />Stay away, it is a long hunting season. A girl who responds well to decent treatment and actually comes back for more decent treatment is who you want.<br /><br />Now the alternative is that you could slap a few girls around and get the word out that you're really a jerk and I'll bet you'd have to beat them off with a stick . . .

 

[Limited-Time]

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Ryan,<br /><br />Ya need to check out one Mr. J. Giles, specifically a tune called Love Stinks........It's all right there. BTW the song pre dates you by a number of years. Good for a listen though.

 

[salty87]

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i like what QC said....it seems like you are her retreat from the scumbags that she's really attracted to. you offer her a nice shoulder, she can trust and re-group. <br /><br />the problem, from reading, is that you want different things. she doesn't seem to be interested in the nice guy approach and you seem to be wrapped up in everything about her. that's bad news for you because you care.<br /><br />run, run like the wind. she's only concerned with herself, you're doomed unless you want to hang around forever, getting walked on, waiting for her to grow up.<br /><br />and lastly, do you know any kids that do what they're told? i think an intervention of some sort is a great way to send her running to her older man. move on to a happier future, it's out there all over the place.

 

[11 footer]

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Her and I text messaged back and forth all day at during school, it all started with be congradulating her on getting her licence, and she responded to that all happy. We talked about her "seeing me" the other day and my recent driving doo doo where I took out some old ladys fence at the end of her street (lets not go there )<br /><br />She was almost giving me advice about how luckey I've been driving that I haven't gotten in trouble, or hurt, and I was just like agreeing with her. She seems to be in a great mood again, like she was when I first met her. I haven't mentioned mr.21 at all, and I've decided that for now I'm not going to. Its just going to have to play its coarse and we'll see what happens, but its odvious that it won't work out.<br /><br />Sloopy,<br />I never thought of it that way before, about mr.21 not wanting anything to do with her, but that could be the case, in which I'd feel a lot better about everything.<br /><br />As for being a "bad boy", and being an *** to other girls in the mean time, I'm kinda working on it tonight i'm "seeing" a girl from my school, same age as me. She really is slamm'in hot, and broke up with her boyfriend of two years a few weeks ago. She really isn't a very nice person, but she likes me, and seems to be a real good old fason scank so i'll have some fun with her in the mean time LOL

 

[RubberFrog]

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Originally posted by Ryan T.:<br /> She really isn't a very nice person, but she likes me, and shes sex starved, so I'll have a good time with her in the meantime

You're catching on....

 

[PW2]

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Ryan, Is this old lady's fence after your escapades with the Camry and the mailbox, and the almost speeding ticket???<br /><br />Gawd, I'm afraid to ask!<br /><br />I think you might have lots bigger problems than some wayward girl, or will have soon...

 

[Limited-Time]

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Originally posted by PW2:<br /> Ryan, Is this old lady's fence after your escapades with the Camry and the mailbox, and the almost speeding ticket???<br /><br />Gawd, I'm afraid to ask!<br /><br />I think you might have lots bigger problems than some wayward girl, or will have soon...

Bingo!!!PW2

 

[POINTER94]

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Ryan,<br /><br />Want to know how to win this one? Don't talk to her until your 5 - no make that your 10, year class reunion. Trust me if she is still available, you will be able to call the shots. Or you can keep being her little hey-boy when her life goes off script. She ain't lookin at you like you are lookin at her. You don't play with someones emotions or feelings like she is playing with yours if she honestly cared about you. Tough to hear, and not so easy to say either.

 

[sloopy]

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IT IS 2am I just wrote a large paper and studied for a test so I am to tired to proof read or edit this post. you have been forwarned....<br /><br />Good job Ryan! Just remember, continue to be her friend and what ever you do, DO NOT MENTION MR 21 or any other guy. EVEN IF she starts talking about him and getting you involved, just change the subject. Do not get agrivated she could be the biggest Sl*T in the world and you still need to nice to her. I know you don't want to get involved with her but if you do end up being rude to her your social life will come crashing down like (inset pun here). <br /><br /><br /> My roomate and I were just jokeing about it too. Since she has two things on her chest all your male friends (no matter how close they are) are going to be on her side. you will just start a gossip war.<br /><br /> IF you do screw up and all hell brakes loose, trust no one! At first it may seem like everyone is on your side and talking to you about, they are just trying to gossip. If this happens Keep your mouth shut and tell them it is none of thier business. Your so called friends will say they will never talk to you again, but they will soon realize that you are more mature and will still be your friends. If this does happen and you really want someone to talk to, talk to you Father. DO not get yout mother involved, they will act all concerned but don't tell them anything about the situation. For some reason moms love to gossip and you will actualy bring everyones parents and probably mr 21, and the school facaulty into the situation.<br /><br />SO LETS SEE WHAT YOU LEARNED<br />*Woman Have the ability to get men do to whatever they want<br />*You should not talk to your mom<br /><br />BTW I know all the ladies on this board are now pissed at me.

 

[Mark42]

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"Her and I text messaged back and forth all day during school..."<br /><br />Learn anything?

 

[one more cast]

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Ryan, when you think you have a girl figured out it then time to go to the music store and buy the Waylon Jennings Eagle album. Next, listen to the song titled.... Wrong. <br />.<br />. I was painting yesterday and that song came on the tv and I instantly thought of you Ryan. I spend to much time on iboats.

 

[salty87]

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Originally posted by Ryan T.:<br /> She seems to be in a great mood again, like she was when I first met her. I haven't mentioned mr.21 at all, and I've decided that for now I'm not going to. <br /><br />

you don't really think this time will be different do you? seriously? learn from the past, it's a very helpful skill to have in this world.

 

[sloopy]

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Originally posted by salty87:<br />

Originally posted by Ryan T.:<br /> She seems to be in a great mood again, like she was when I first met her. I haven't mentioned mr.21 at all, and I've decided that for now I'm not going to. <br /><br />

you don't really think this time will be different do you? seriously? learn from the past, it's a very helpful skill to have in this world.

Yes but he should still be her friend. From what I have read here this girl is still trying to find out who she is. BTW do not give her adivice on men, even if she ask.

 

[sloopy]

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Originally posted by One More Cast:<br /> <br />.<br />. I was painting yesterday and that song came on the tv and I instantly thought of you Ryan. I spend to much time on iboats.

Anyone else find something strange just playing OMC...

 

[Nos4r2]

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Originally posted by SLOOPY: BTW do not give her adivice on men, even if she ask. [/QB]

The only advice I'll EVER give a woman about men is that we're ALL A**holes...it's just the amount of sh1t that comes out that varies...<br /><br />I'd stay well clear anyway Ryan. If she's keen enough she'll ask you, rather than the other way around. If not, you aint lost anything apart from a headache.

 

[cpj]

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Ryan,<br />Dinner 30 dollars.<br />Movie 22 dollars.<br />Snacks at said movie 15 dollars.<br /><br />Not doing any of the above and just hanging out with your guy friends talking about your latest car crash,chicks with big boobs,etc etc,then going home and taking MATTERS into your own hands, thinking how much money you saved by doing this,PRICELESS!

 

[11 footer]

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A little more history on her,<br />she doesn't go to my school. I go to the vocational highschool, five different towns send to my school, she goes to the regular highschool, and lives in the next town over from me. SO, their really isn't much gossip with her, maybe ten people in my whole school even know who she is.<br /><br />She texted last night, then all threw the day today. She is coming to me this time, not like last time where it was more of me reaching out to her all the time. We haven't talked about being in a relationship, or this 21y/o, I really dont even know the statius on that. We talked about my little brother, (almost 3y/o) and how she wants to meet him, so manybe tomorow we;ll do that <br /><br />My friend brandan, who is going out with her best friend jackie talked to me about it this afternoon. Perette called brandan today to talk about me, according to him, she told him about like every text I sent her, and told him how I asked her to "hang out" with me and my brother. I guess she seems excited about talking with me agian. <br /><br />So, what I'm now going it, playing hard to get.I would really like to go out with her agiain, but its gonna be on MY terms and we'll have some descussions about it before hand. <br /><br />Like I said, its not like shes some crazy crack *****, she has a good reputation, gets straght A's in school, works and pays for all her own stuff, she has a lot more going for her then any other girl I know. So thats where I'm at right now

 

[one more cast]

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"I would really like to go out with her agiain, but its gonna be on MY terms" <br /><br /> Ryan, You may think its "your terms" but guess what. <br /> Women have something that men can't resist and they know it! You crack me up. You should save everything you write on iboats for about 20 years and then repost it word for word and then see what you think.

 

[sloopy]

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be her friend, Go out with her (as friends), chill with her, whatever!! Just be under the alusion that she does have a boyfriend and pretend that you don't care. <br /><br />If she does come on to and you do start going out again, and breaks up with you again or if she starts going out with you and she ends up seeing somebody else. DO NOT LET IT GET TO YOU. Don't even get mad just act like a **** and continue to be her friend JUST never get romanticaly involved with her again. The worse thing you can do is make her mad.<br /><br />THe best thing that could come out of this is you end up being realllly close friends. BUT remember (I know this from experiance) Once you are in the friend zone you can never go back into the underwear zone. BTW once in the friend zone she will probably be real huggy and shary feelings with you, don't get this confused with a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship and don't try to stear it that way<br /><br />IF you have aim feel free to talk to me online at funnysailboats

 

[sloopy]

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Like I said, its not like shes some crazy crack *****, she has a good reputation, gets straght A's in school, works and pays for all her own stuff, she has a lot more going for her then any other girl I know. So thats where I'm at right now

then why do you think she is sleeping with a 21 year old? Most likely other girls are jealous (Sp) and making up gossip, (like "Oh she is not really smart she just sleeps around and has her men do her work for her.")