Going to a 4 blade will kill your Top End,
If your engine has a Sticker on it that say 4200 - 4600, that's what you go with. You are a bit under propped, so adding 2 more inches should drop the RPM by about 400 which should place you around 4400 - 4500, which is okay. The Holeshot will be slower.Your Top Speed might go up a MPH. Any Idea what brand the current prop is?
Don't put too much in the "AL blades Flex" statement, While there may be a some flex, it would be in the range of less than 1/100", but hey, it has Sold a lot of SS props. Of course there will be someone spouting about Harmonics due to the Flexing and so forth,,, But AL props generally have fairly thick Blades, and the Aluminum used for props is not really a Elastic Alloy
Switching to a SS, brings up a bunch of Variable. If the Prop is just SS version of the AL, it will be heavier and more Durable. If the Blades have been thinned, it will be slightly more Efficient, and you may end up with a bit more speed or Thrust as Slippage is Reduced, however with less Slippage, the engine has a Higher Loading, and RPMs may drop a wee bit, cancelling out most or all of the Theoretical Speed gain. If the SS Prop was designed with a more advanced Blade Design to take advantage of the SS Alloy, the Blades may have a Different Shape, Rake and Cupping. These changes will affect Holeshot, Top Speed, Handling, and even how the Boat rides in/on the water.
Best way to get more speed with out swapping to a 4.3 is to make sure the Hull is Straight, with no Hooks, is Smooth and clean of Algae, or Barnacles, remove all unneeded Ballast, place loads for best Performance, and use the Power Trim correctly.. Being an I/O, Outdrive Height is not easily adjusted, you just have to hope the Boat Maker got it right.