Re: Need help picking tow vehicle
We faced the same situation you've got a couple years ago.
Our boat is a 14' SeaRayder jet boat, according to the manuals about 800#. With 16 gal fuel, trailer, etc we're still well under 1200#. The CRV is rated for a maximum 1500# towing, so we're just within the 80% guideline. If I had brakes on the trailer, towing capacity is a lot more.
We bought an 07 Honda CRV and have used it to tow the boat with no problem. Yeah, our mileage goes from mid-to-high twenties to mid-teens when we're towing, but that's a fact of life. Overall economy and comfort were important to us, too. That's why we didn't go with a bigger vehicle. Since the majority of use is off-season non-towing, be sure to get a vehicle you're comfortable driving / riding in. 4-Wheel drive when launching our boat was a critical requirement, since our lake has only a sand launch point. Most of our towing is 1/2 mile from our cottage to the launch point, with occasional visits to other nearby lakes.
Buy your hitch on-line and install it yourself. I got a 2" Valley hitch through etrailer.com; the only reason it took me 30 minutes to install it was I stopped to take photos of the installation process and my neighbor stopped by to chat.
If it's ok with the moderators, I'd suggest you visit "www.hondasuv.com/members" -- you don't have to join to look around, but that is also a very friendly group and can answer a lot of your questions. Search there on hitch installation and you'll find several step-by-step photos for both the hitch and wiring harness for CRVs.