Re: oil on plugs?
Running surface gap on that engine? Are the other plugs dry? Are your piston crowns on all 6 cylinders the same color?
Don't remember when Merc started using SG plugs but it's been a long time. I had them in my '88 115. SG plugs will have carbon streaks on them and are usually wet when engine shuts down. I ran the plugs on the engine mentioned for about 7 years. It ran an 18' boat just under 50 and loved 6k rpm....ran a Laser SS prop. Piston crowns being the same color tells you that you have no problem with water intrusion.
If it checks, go and have fun; don't worry about it.
Mark