Great advice everyone! I feel much better now. I love this place, you can get advice (solicited... ) from everything from outboard spark issues to in-laws! Have a great weekend everyone.
I don't mind advice asked for or not. That's why I belong to this forum. The problem is that some people get upset with you if their advice is not followed. She expressed her feelings better than I could. If people are hurt by her posting I think they are the ones with a problem.
Believe me I would be the first one to tell people how to raise their kids if I could just figure out how to raise mine first. 20+ years and the Wife and I still don't have it figured out.