It looks like this is goodbye.

SlowlySinking

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12Footer, you could also try JUNO.COM, they provide free e-mail and internet access with some limits, not sure what limits but check it out before you're off the web. We don't want to lose one member, this forum is too much help and fun. :) EDIT: I checked , go to JUNO, site says it's a small 2 minute download and you can sign up at the same time.<br /><br />Any chance you have a PAYPAL account? That would be an easy way to help keep you here.
 

Ross J

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

If someone can arrange for our donations to reach 12 footer on time to keep his connection then E-mail me at Jamiesor@hotmail.com and keep me in the loop for sure.<br />Thanks Ross
 

gonfishn

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

No way 12footer...Got fifty bucks to get this started..just let me know where to send..JB,or Mayfloat shoot me an email and where to send...
 

neumanns

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12Footer...I do not know the details therfore I hope this is not out of line.I hope that there is a way becuase in your 3000+ posts you have become a part of this boared and you have many friends here. The Non-esential services thing I can understand however in toufgh times a fella still needs an outlet, You obviously enjoyed it here. And if you cannot lean on your friends once in a while they were not your friends in the first place. If there is anything we can do to return the friendship you have shown us, Please at least allow us to do this
 

SpinnerBait_Nut

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

paypal is a good idea.<br />12'er, just start you one if you have not already got one and let us know the paypal name and your in like flint.
 

bubbakat

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12footer just shoot me your e-mail or ad and you will stay on line.I know you are a Fine person from all the help you have given here. so let us here return the help My email is coofficer@blomand.net
 

NathanY

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

Sean,<br /><br />I as well as all of the other members will do what we can to keep you around, How much is your isp per year? I can send you a money order.
 

ob

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12Footer,Listen to what these guys are saying.We are all here to help.If you feel the offer sounds too much like charity,look at it this way.Use the money for anything you wish since all but bare essentials is your budget plan.You can repay the money by simply by following Djohns advice and humping it down to the library once in a while to say hello.Friends don't let friends need.You are an asset to this website and obviously have established some real friends.
 

TexSkeeter150

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12Footer,<br />I hope I am not out of line only being a member of this forum for a couple weeks, but I do know that members with 3,000 plus posts are a vital and unique part of this comunity. Please consider what everyone is suggesting, after all, we just want to keep you here. I know that everyone here has at one time or another gone through tough financial times. When these times happen the whole "family" pulls together and rides it out together, which I feel is what iboats members would like to do for you. My hopes and prayers will be with you throughout these times also. God bless....Stephen
 

12Footer

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

WWWWWWWwowW! And Woah! I'm not gone yet, and even tho it looks like no light is at the end of the tunnel sometimes, I'm sure Mrs 12Footer and I will eventually be back online... eventually. She has her sites also, and I can't bear to see her go without her "Flipside.com game fix" for very long.<br />The outpouring of all your thoughts and offers bring tears to my Carol and my eyes (NS).<br />We cannot not execpt your monetary help. It just wouldn't be right at all. And place yourselves in my shoes...I think I would avoid logging-in out of pure shame, if I were to accept the offers. But just know that your heart-fealt offers are declined with much gratitude. Jeeeezz.I thought the first post was hard to type!<br />Also, you folks gave me some sugjestions ,listing options I hadn't even though of, like the Library.<br />I'm there at least once a week, and you guys know I don't have every Clymer manual in print. That place sure comes-in handy :D <br />And then the sugjestions of the free ISPs. I may be looking-into these also. I remember trying one out a long time ago, but had trouble dealing with all the pop-ups. No doubt, they are overbearing these days, but worth a second look, given the options.<br />I wasn't going to get into this but given the outpouring you all have submitted here, a better explanation is definately owed to all of you. As some of you are already aware, we have had some major unforseen expenses lately, that put us off the upcomming "L.O.T.W. iboats.com get together".Major failures ,all big-ticket items like lawmower, wife's car and accident ect, all at one time.... And from there ,financial things got much worse.<br />I'm retiring in 50days, after 30years with the same employer. Given the prevailing employment climate locally, our finances are in "preservation mode" (better safe than sorry). Not a big deal, but we have to prepare as best we can.<br />NOW, the part I really wanted to avoid---<br /> <br />The (with child,4 mos) daughter's new husband of 4 months,turned-out to be a low-life woman/child beater, who was hopelessly wired on perscription pain killers. He got this way from being obnoxious, and getting into the face of someone with larger boots......They kicked him repeatedly in the head until he was allmost dead, and left him in a coma. This was several years ago, from what we have been told. He has had severe headaches since that event, and he is still an obnoxious,arrogant azzclown. The boot taught him nothing.<br />So, anyhoo, last Wednesday, my daughter (in self-defense), took the knife from his own belt as he was sitting on her chest, legs and one arm imobiilized, and stabbed him with it repeatedly, until he got off of her. <br />He was released from the hospital to the custody of the county. No charges were brought against her, but she is heartsick. I mention all this "Payton Place" stuff, because the azzclown may bond-out of the only place that protects him from me. That being said, who knows where I'll be sitting in the event they do release him. He is charged on two felony counts of assault,and a possable attempted murder, and will be going away for a long,long time!<br />But it's the pre-court date wanderings he might be able to do, that place him at high risk, and consequently, myself as well. Those of you with children are aware of the lengths you will go to protect them. I am so very proud of my daughter! What little training we gave her when she was growing up, in weapons training, self-defense ect paid-off big-time. So we are counting God's blessings to this point, and are praying for his guidance in the future.<br /><br />So now you know ,as Paul Harvey says. "The REST of the story".<br />Again ,the outpouring from my iboats.com family overjoys the wife and I, just to know you're all "covering our six"... But I will not accept our ISP being paid for. I'm a bit too proud for that, and wheras all avenues have been tried, the road goes on. The offers in that vain, tho, are proof positive of the lengths you would go thru on our behalf. Words cannot decribe how it makes Carol and I feel.<br />And remember, I may be gone, but I'm not "un-registering", and will drop by from time-to-time just to say "heyhey". I just wont be as prevailant. And all this will pass. We hope so,and will work hard at making it pass, at least.<br /><br />Thanks again. You people are the proof to everyone whho see this thread, the best of mankind!
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neumanns

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

Ufda...You my broad sholdered friend have Quite a load to bear. I cannot share this load with you, it is yours to bear. Know you do not travel this road alone. <br /><br />I simply wish you the best, May there be Sunnier days ahead. Keep us posted when you can.
 

Spidybot

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12Footer.<br /><br />I completely understand your reaction to all that has happened to you. Very impressive that you and your wife copes with this.<br /><br />I also understand your turning down the help offered - all considered.<br /><br />Should you change your mind or decide to accept the help on the agreement that you can pay back whenever you feel fit, you just slip a line...<br /><br />Wish we could do more to help you - at least allow us to be your friends.
 

gonfishn

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

I look at it this way 12Footer how much money have you saved us over your many,many posts. Be glad we don't know your address or most us would send it anyway. I respect your decision but the shoes you wear fits only you...I wish you only the best and whats your address again...
 

sloopy

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

How about having iboats pay? If iboats pays, they are paying you for business. You have saved people people thousands of dollars! I think iboats or some members should repay you in some way?
 

NathanY

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

Just know that I as well as all the other members will be here if you ever need anything.
 

RICKRICK1

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12er<br /><br />Can't tell how the future will turn out and from what you have said you still have long road ahead. Each of us on this site have benefitted from not only your knowledge, but your friendship. I hope that everything turns out OK and the future smiles on you and yours. IF I CAN BE OF ANY ASSISTANCE or if you just need some one to talk to my cell phone # is 817-247-8036. Will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
 

Ross J

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12footer, if your daughter is half the person you are then she'll be all right.<br />I can only hope the outcome will be positive for her as this is mearly the door opening onto another oppurtunity for her life! What a great time to be free from a person you describe her partner to be. Heliljua she found out how to stop the pain. May she and her child live long in freedom and oppurtunity. Likewise the grandparents.<br />Can't do much from down here in NZ other than salute you and your family, so to all the 12 footer clan from mine heres a big salute................<br />Ross
 

TennCain

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12 footer,<br /><br />I do not post much because I came here to learn. I have my first boat, other than a jon or canoe, and I read a lot of iboats stuff. I realized a long time ago that if you write it, I am gonna read it.<br /><br />I am sure there are many people like me who come here to see what you and some of these other fine gentlemen have to say.--- Ive even found a couple of things I can answer and help with !!! LOL!!<br /><br />Being the father of two daughters, I can certainly relate to your position. I was in something similiar about twenty years ago and I settled it in my head by realizing that if I didnt control myself, my daughter would have to go through life without me to help her because I would be dead or in prison.<br />That girl is the joy of my life now and Im glad Im here for her and her children.----- Its a tough thing but think ahead if you possibly can. ( I had to seek professional counseling.)<br /><br />You are a value to so many folks that you dont even know, 12footer, that if you would permit, Id pay it myself and youd never even know who I am.<br /><br />Take care, my friend, and evaluate everything you do for a while.<br /><br />My prayers will be with you and your family.
 

OBJ

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Re: It looks like this is goodbye.

12'r....there are some of us that have gone through situations simular to yours. All I can say is, trust in family. Keep them close. Your daughter sounds very strong as mine are. With the strength you have given them, and with the strength that you will add, the situation will come out for the better for her and your family. But, as has already been posted before, you need help, just give us a holler. Ya' got more friends her than you know.
 
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