Thanks for your reply Lou -- I think that I got ahold of an old fashion , replace everything until you accidentally solve the problem , mechanic . He never even looked at the adjustment positions of the bracket before telling me that I needed more that a thousand dollars of unnecessary work done. Besides that , if I had another thousand plus to throw at this boat I would go to a Volvo outdrive .
Could a cable that is not binding cause this problem ? I still keep thinking that the problem is in the timing of the ESA interruption that is causing this as that would prevent the Drive from coming out of gear to Neutral in the same way wouldn't it ?
It's not that the cable is binding but that the OD does not want to come out of gear Immediately at the correct time and to me that says incorrect placement of the triggering device ie the cams that actuate the interrupter switch since we know that the ESA is in good working condition and that the switches also work .
I have noted that there seems to be slop in the system as well that does not seem right , perhaps this could be a contributing factor and as I re re re adjust the system again I will do my best to eliminate it although it would seem that if I make sure there is no slop going one direction there would be slop going the other so , I dunno . Something allows the the system to work as it should one time but not the next .
BUT if I have to , I will buy another OEM cable and install same , I guess the problem may be that the aftermarket cable is stretching instead of pulling it stiffly out of gear. I've been getting 200 dollard to death on this thing so I'm a little resistant to buy more until I'm satisfied that it can be nothing else .
I will go over everything again and see what I can do .
Good thing I have a wide stubborn streak or I would have done something drastic a long time ago.

thanks again----Bruce