sensative situation what would you do?
Going back, maybe four months ago my best friend emitted that he had a "crush" on a girl from our school. She's a year younger then him and I, we are 17 she's 16. I had a gf at the time he told me this. Me, along with a lot of other people tried REALLY hard to set them up. Him and her double dated together like every night for about two weeks. Apparently, he never made a move on her, and she was basically not interested. She ended up blowing him off, stopped answering his calls,,, ect. Well, he was pretty depressed about it. I have quite a few "close" friends,, him,, im the only one he's got. He considers me his best friend, he is a really close friend to me, someone i feel i can always depend on and trust to have my back.<br /><br />He hasn't talked to the girl in close to two months now, and even when they did talk it wasn't like deep conversations or anything. She never had any interest in him, he knows and emits it.<br /><br />This girl has some issues, she has no parents. They are both in rehab hospitals, she hasn't seen or talked to either of them since she was young. Her "legal custody" has been passed around quite a bit, just recently her adopted grandmother died, the one person she's known as a mother figure for the longest. Then she was told that she was going to movein with an uncle, she was all ready to make the move and his a-hole hangs himself. She's now living with another family is a temporary situation, but will have to move again sometime in the near future.<br /><br />She gets dropped off right down the street from my work after school everyday, I've been driving her home for about two months. Never hung out with her, just rides home. Well, the last two weeks or so I've been talking to her online and on the phone quite a bit, not just casual talking, she's told me all about her past, parents,, ect... My friend found out her and i where talking, seemed pissed and bummed out about the whole thing, but told me he has no reasons to be mad at anyone and "it shouldn't bother him" last night i talked to him online, and told him that i wanted to let him know that i was going to hang out with her, and me "hooking up" with her wasn't out of the question. This morning, he didn't come to school. He's like me, never misses school, especially on the friday, test day.<br />I called around noon from school, he didn't answer. Tonight the girl and I went on what i guess you could call a date. Me, her, a buddy of mine and his girlfriend. It went well, i didn't try to come on to her, or even touch her at all, but im interested in getting involved with her.<br /><br />Well, while the four of us are on this "date" we are at my friends house, the 4 of us sitting in his room. Out of nowhere my friend (the one im with) calls my other friend (one i haven't heard from all day) and asks why he wasn't in school. His response was "various reasons i dont wanna talk about" he then asked him if he'd heard from me, and he said "he called me" but said he didn't call me back.<br /><br />It seem to me, that me and his girl could be part of the reason he missed school today, this is a huge deal to me, and im really at a loss as to what im going to do about it, talk about sensative situation<br />Any suggestions?
Going back, maybe four months ago my best friend emitted that he had a "crush" on a girl from our school. She's a year younger then him and I, we are 17 she's 16. I had a gf at the time he told me this. Me, along with a lot of other people tried REALLY hard to set them up. Him and her double dated together like every night for about two weeks. Apparently, he never made a move on her, and she was basically not interested. She ended up blowing him off, stopped answering his calls,,, ect. Well, he was pretty depressed about it. I have quite a few "close" friends,, him,, im the only one he's got. He considers me his best friend, he is a really close friend to me, someone i feel i can always depend on and trust to have my back.<br /><br />He hasn't talked to the girl in close to two months now, and even when they did talk it wasn't like deep conversations or anything. She never had any interest in him, he knows and emits it.<br /><br />This girl has some issues, she has no parents. They are both in rehab hospitals, she hasn't seen or talked to either of them since she was young. Her "legal custody" has been passed around quite a bit, just recently her adopted grandmother died, the one person she's known as a mother figure for the longest. Then she was told that she was going to movein with an uncle, she was all ready to make the move and his a-hole hangs himself. She's now living with another family is a temporary situation, but will have to move again sometime in the near future.<br /><br />She gets dropped off right down the street from my work after school everyday, I've been driving her home for about two months. Never hung out with her, just rides home. Well, the last two weeks or so I've been talking to her online and on the phone quite a bit, not just casual talking, she's told me all about her past, parents,, ect... My friend found out her and i where talking, seemed pissed and bummed out about the whole thing, but told me he has no reasons to be mad at anyone and "it shouldn't bother him" last night i talked to him online, and told him that i wanted to let him know that i was going to hang out with her, and me "hooking up" with her wasn't out of the question. This morning, he didn't come to school. He's like me, never misses school, especially on the friday, test day.<br />I called around noon from school, he didn't answer. Tonight the girl and I went on what i guess you could call a date. Me, her, a buddy of mine and his girlfriend. It went well, i didn't try to come on to her, or even touch her at all, but im interested in getting involved with her.<br /><br />Well, while the four of us are on this "date" we are at my friends house, the 4 of us sitting in his room. Out of nowhere my friend (the one im with) calls my other friend (one i haven't heard from all day) and asks why he wasn't in school. His response was "various reasons i dont wanna talk about" he then asked him if he'd heard from me, and he said "he called me" but said he didn't call me back.<br /><br />It seem to me, that me and his girl could be part of the reason he missed school today, this is a huge deal to me, and im really at a loss as to what im going to do about it, talk about sensative situation<br />Any suggestions?
<br /><br />You can be a friend-I recommend it, just be aware of your surroundings.
